How 'bout a big kiss!
Wednesday, August 22, 2012
When she was growing up in Liverpool, England, my mother was considered an English Rose, according to the urban dictionary.
Here are two definitions :
1. A very pretty English girl who tends to wear little or no makeup, has pale skin, rosy cheeks, natural hair and is well-spoken and lady-like.
2. Typically English girl. Normally, she will have brown hair, pale skin, green eyes and rosy cheeks. She is very beautiful and very rare.
Well, I would have to say that is pretty accurate.
Having a mother who came from the same town as The Beatles, was a good conversation piece for my siblings and I, when we were kids. We were living in California then, and my brother Glenn, who you all know by now, would round up all the neighborhood kids, come to our back door, go get my mom, and he would say, "tell them...tell them where you're from", and then, "you're never going to believe it". Doesn't that sound just like him?
( I told you he was priming himself for rock n' roll stardom at an early age, didn't I?)
Anyway, she was born and raised in Liverpool. My mother went to school there and graduated at age 13. That's how they did it back then. Once in awhile she will tell me stories about her childhood, her sisters and brothers and what her parents were like. Her father nicknamed her "Buzz Quick" because she couldn't stay still. Always going somewhere, doing something, making something, busy, busy. That's her still today. They had a very loving home, respectful and caring. Her Dad was a hardworking, quiet man, but with a wonderful sense of humor. Her mother was sweet, kind and loved to laugh. Out of the five brothers and sisters in their house, she was closest to and admired her older brother Chuck. During the war, when he'd come home to visit, Chuck would take my mom on motorcycle rides from Liverpool to Scotland to see family. It was a 250 mile ride, on an old scooter, more or less. She would tire, and almost nod off, resting her head on his back, and he would say, " Don't fall asleep, Buzz".
She adored him. Chuck was a high ranking officer in ww2 and was killed in an unfortunate accident involving a heavy metal beam, hitting the back of his neck. That was a terrible loss for my mother.
And about that war. During the bombings that occurred quite frequently, mom's family was forced into the underground shelters. They were forever hiding away from the raids. One day, when the bombings came again, my grandmother said to everyone, that she was tired of going down there. No more! As a result, they stayed inside and hid under the kitchen table, and do you know what happened? The bomb shelter they were suppose to take refuge in was demolished! My grandma's resistance saved her family's life.
Most of the children were sent to farms in Wales, to live and work with families, where they would be safe. My mother went to stay on a dairy farm.
A few years later, the war ends. My father, a sailor, his ship docked in Liverpool, sweeps my mother off her feet, they get married and he buys her a one way ticket on the giant ship America. First class everything. She danced with all the officers, because my mom was one heck of a jitter bugger! They all wanted to dance with this English Rose!
My dad meets her ship in NYC, her first time in America. They take a road trip cross country, their destination, Aspen, Colorado. Cowboys!
My dad wants to buy mom some red cowboy boots. No way! She didn't want to be a cowgirl.
For awhile, they lived in San Francisco, on Haight Ashbury of all places. Of course, this was before the hippie era stormed in. But still...Haight Ashbury!
My parents lived in a variety of places through the years. My dad had numerous jobs, and my mother was a real trooper, just going along with it, and seeing the world. I guess you could say they were on a long adventure.
Finally settled, raising four rambunctious kids, my mother was an amazing homemaker. She sews, knits like crazy, can fix anything, and she has a knack for finding a "good deal". I think being a mother would be difficult, but I have such good memories of my childhood, she must have done all the right stuff.
When my brothers and sister and I finally flew the coop, that's when my mom started to really live it up. It was her turn now.
Joining a singing group called The Sweet Adeline's is one of the highlights in my mom's life. For one, she sings like a bird, and I'm not joking.
This group of gals are tight knit and are comrades through and through. They practice and sing, and sing and practice. They travel to competitions. They go to these fabulous places to sing and compete and listen to other groups perform, all the while, sightseeing in old historic cities and towns, going on tours, you name it.
For seventeen years my mother had the time of her life. The Sweet Addy days were some of her fondest memories. Those friendships she had with a special group of women, all having one major thing in common...the love of singing...brought her some unforgettable joy.
These days, my mom is taking it easy. She loves to swim and take walks. She and my dad go to the public library every Friday and bring home bags of books and DVD's. Every day at three o' clock she picks out one of the movies from her library bag and they watch one. They call that time of day their "Chocolates". You know, like Forrest Gump says, " You never know what you're going to get". Once a week they walk the pier scouting out sea lions and otters and check out the activity of the fishermen that just came into port.
In the afternoon, my mom knits. She makes sweaters and slippers for everyone in the family, and then some. In the summer, she knits winter hats and mittens for me. I'm pretty sure she thinks I'm freezing most of the time up here. Lately, she's been creating these gorgeous fingerless gloves that I've been begging her to make. Because she lives in Cali, I don't think she realizes how awesome fingerless gloves are!
And there you have it. The story of a true English Rose. The dictionary was right on, don't you think? As you can see, she is beautiful...and very rare indeed.
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Monday, August 20, 2012
Or rather, Saint Francis De Assisi, patron saint of animals. He's an animal lover, a protector of animals and I've got him in my courtyard to do just that. Frankie is watching guard on the critters that visit. I'm hoping his presence will encourage the local wild ones to stop by more often.See the bowl he's holding with two little birdies perched on the sides? Obviously, the bowl is for water, however, I'm using it to stash a bird nest that I found. Look closely and you can see they build their nests with just about anything they can find! I tell you, these birds are resourceful! Oh, and if you're wondering what those odd gray clumps are below, those my friends, are owl pellets. C finds
them in our yard and lovingly presents them to me. He likes to see me smile.
St. Francis was abrother of peace, had compassion for the poor and wanted to pass on his teachings of kindness and kinship of animals. He even wanted a special law, that man take care of the birds and beasts, to provide what they need. Not only that, but to respect and honor flowers. I like that!
Here's Frankie carved in wood. He stays inside to keep my friendly gatos company.
So, take a walk, honor the flowers and listen to the birds. They are singing for us! Do it for Frankie.
Wednesday, August 15, 2012
When we set out to find our acre of aspens, we never intended it to be any more than a place to run away to and camp. This plot of land we found had everything. Aspen trees, hoodoos and boulders, sagebrush, tundra type ground cover with dainty flowers of lavender and yellow. Eight Ponderosa pines, a couple of fir trees, high elevation, fresh air, and close proximity to our home in Wyoming. The best part about coming here are the visiting wildlife. Moose for one. Although I haven't laid eyes on her yet, I know she's been poking around my yard. They like aspen leaves and bark. There's evidence of broken branches. But, I don't mind, for I adore moose. Because of all the rocks surrounding the cove, there are marmots. They make funny whistling sounds. Another name for them are Whistle pigs. I've seen cottontails and plenty of curious chipmunks. Well, friendly might be a better word, as I've taken up feeding them raw almonds. Someone said they saw a bobcat around there in the spring. I hope that's true. Ravens are plenty, announcing their presence as they play above us in the sky. And just yesterday morning we heard the call of an owl.
So, yes. We wanted to pitch a tent and camp on our own private spot. Our spot came with a vintage Royal Spartanette trailer. I was hesitant. I didn't WANT to live in a trailer. I LIKE my canvas teepee and sleeping on the ground, and wondering what that noise was, what snapped that branch nearby. I like lying on my back with my head poking out of the tent, staring up at the sky and counting the stars late at night. I know, i know. I can still pitch the tent, regardless . And, if we have company, then that's just what I'll do.
Okay, having the trailer is convenient. A shiny silver shelter from the storm. It's in very good shape, and inside it's all blonde wood. It's so darn cozy. I have to admit, it's been nice to duck into when the afternoon rain showers pass by.
We're still roughing it. There is no electricity or running water. It's a sweet shelter, our home away from home. I'm becoming more attached to the "Silver Bullet" every time I go there.
In the near future, we plan to replace the trailer with a yurt, but for now, I'm so thankful for what unexpectedly came with the animals and aspens.
Thursday, August 2, 2012
She longs for the mountains
She's got a brown suntan starting just above her collar
Her lower arms they're brown, but the rest is kinda pale.
She'd buy betadine if she only had a dollar
And she'd live out in the pasture if she only had a tail.
And no I don't see her much since she started with horses
No I don't see her much since she started to ride.
From the song "Since She Started To Ride" by Jonathan Richman